I know I said I was going to write about by backstabbing friend next, but this seemed more relevant right now. I had an odd dream last night. In it, I was married to my current boyfriend and we were middle aged. For some reason we were talking about secrets we kept from each other. I told him I threw our T.V. out the window on our honeymoon (I have no idea what that was about). And he told me he cheated on me during a rough patch in our relationship before we got married. I told my mom about it this morning, and she told me not to worry about it and that she was sure everything would work out. I asked her how she could be so sure. She told me to sit down because she had a story to tell me.
She said that when she was about my age there was this one girl that was really out to get her. My dad was going to take my mom to a huge end of the year party. Unfortunately, my mom had gotten grounded for sneaking out to see my dad in the middle of the night. She said they had the "I don't want to go without you, go if you want I want you to be happy" moments. My dad went to the party and my mom stayed home and watched NASCAR.
Before I write the next part, I need to mention this. My parents are the type of people that were planning to save themselves for marriage. Therefore, when my mom told me what happened at that party, it really bothered me. While my mom was at home, my dad was having a good old time at the party. He was drinking like there was no tomorrow. While he was drunk, the girl that was out to get my mom was talking to him. Somehow, she convinced him to go to a bedroom alone with her. One thing led to another, they took each other's virginity.
At that point I was speechless. I asked her how she got through it after something like that. She told me that she was angry about what happened, but she wasn't going to be hindered by it. She said she called the girl's parents from a pay phone and told them that their daughter was having sex with people at parties. She knew my dad wouldn't have done it if he wasn't drunk, so she told him he wasn't allowed to drink anymore.
I asked her if she thinks the same thing would happen to me and she said not to worry about it. I asked why she told me that story, and she said that she was really bored and she had to tell me some time, why not then.
Sorry if the story is a little hard to follow, I am not good at storytelling and I got bad grades in Lit class.
Everyone makes mistakes! At least your parents are happy now!
ReplyDeleteWouldn't worry about. Find a nice man that wouldn't do anything like that behind your back.
ReplyDeletei hate my parents, itll get better
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't say that I HATE my parents, but they are kinda weird.
ReplyDeleteEvery GF I've ever had would have a weird dream like that every once in awhile and freak out about it.
ReplyDeleteSome advice: Don't freak out about it
Pretty entertaining story :o I'm liking your posts.
ReplyDeleteThats life for you.
ReplyDeleteI disagree. I think you have a skill for it. Kept me interested all the way through. Nevermind what you got in Lit class.
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Yes, Dustin is right. Happens with everyone.
ReplyDeleteDidn't have a hard time following it. Grades aren't everything! Following your blog now... it's interesting :D
ReplyDeleteThat would be something to find out. I laughed when she told you because she was bored.
ReplyDeletesounds normal, not everyone lives a perfect life
ReplyDeleteSeems like normal teenage life to me.
ReplyDeleteI just got here to read this...is this a real story? It seems more like a film, or something. No offense, I'm just surprised. It would be interesting to learn more about your relationship with your parents.
ReplyDeleteWell i guess the point is - Your mothers life is more fucked up than your dreams. Or something.
ReplyDeleteI have a major in psychology and neuroscience so this blog is actually interesting to follow :D
ReplyDeletesrsly whats wrong with parents??
ReplyDeleteJust recently my girlfriend had a dream where she walked in on me cheating on her, and as a result, she was half-convinced that it would actually happen. My advice would be for you to realize that dreams are usually a subconscious manifestation of things that you are afraid of or that you are worried about, not visions of the future.
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ReplyDeleteI don't know, this seems typical parents stuff. When you get older, you'll see how they stuff they did for you was ultimately good.
ReplyDeletehaha, I love your rants, crazy dream btw.
ReplyDeleteHave fun throwing your tv out the window in your future, oh and cute profile picture!
I'm on this planet for 18 years and still havent seen ideal parents.So dont worry just try to get along with them.
ReplyDeletethats a really bad thing for a child to see
ReplyDeleteParents are never flawless, the shine always comes of the more you grow up, it's odd but it's a part of getting older
ReplyDeletelifes to short to worry
ReplyDeleteAll parents are human, I'm surprised most parents last 15 years before their children realise they're not perfect.
ReplyDeleteWow, that just blows
ReplyDeleteParents can be really dumb sometimes.
ReplyDeleteGirls can be so spiteful! Serenity now!
ReplyDeleteDreams usually mean nothing considering it is your brains scheduled maintenance and bugs usually happen during maintenance.
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ReplyDeleteVery interesting =)
ReplyDeleteIf your parents got through it, then you can too! Chin up!
ReplyDeleteTypical Parents, keep them posts comming :)
ReplyDeletewow, kinda shocking, sometimes it's kinda weird to know this histories about our parents, but they are human after all. Here in my country we use to say "pasado pisado" that's pretty much like fuck the past xD lol
ReplyDeleteEs lindo ver que alguien más se desahoga por su blog.
Saludos Kelly :)
i'm disappoint my comment got removed :(
ReplyDeleteWe don't have Nascar here in the UK :(
ReplyDeleteNot too confusing, actually. I thought it was well written.
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ReplyDeleteyour parent really call a another mom to tell her girls was having sex in a party, arkward.
ReplyDeleteIts... quite personal things you mention here and im little confused maybe even ashamed that i find myself intrested in other persons life.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is a little weird in some ways.
ReplyDeleteParents can be really dumb sometimes.
ReplyDeletenice blog btw!
keep it up
Oh wow. Well, I guess the point your mom was making is that people make mistakes and you shouldn't throw a strong relationshpip away because of a momentary lapse in judgment.
ReplyDeletelets see some more posts! =D
ReplyDeleteI think everyone had been pissed off by parents, at least once. It's normal I guess ;)
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